Term Limits

I came across an interesting post on a forum that I frequent. The writer posted this question SHOULD WE HAVE TERM LIMITS ON MARRIAGES LICENSE...This question made me go ummmmmm....This doesn't sound like a bad idea...The writer went on to say that the term should be for one year and after the time is up you can either renew or go your own separate way... However as part of the renewal process you may want to negotiate some conditions if there were issues during the first year of marriage...

I think most people would benefit from this... You sould learn a lot about each other in the first year of marriage and by the time the term limit is up you should know more or less if you can stay with this person till death do you part and if there are issues you can work them out or move the hell on...

I can see this saving the expense of getting divorce.

The down side is hopefully there are no children produced during this time period... because this takes it to another level.......

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Random Thoughts

While in meetings I wish I could just tell some people who go on and on to "Shut The Hell Up".

Why can't we have four day work weeks.

They need to learn how to regulate the air in this building.. It's freezing in here. Do they really expect us to get work done..

I spent last night having an enjoyable conversation on the phone with someone that I met online... during the conversation it came up that he's unemployed... ?????? more on this later....

I need to get a pedicure

If I sitting at my desk and I am focused on my computer screen ..I am desperately avoiding eye contact with you. why do people insist on having a conversation with me... not about work.. but bs! Can't they see I am ignoring them...


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Ramblings

Why do some men misinterpret a cordial hello as an invite for stalking.... while standing on the train platform yesterday reading my book I looked up and... my eyes made contact with a man that was walking by me.. he smiled and said hello and smiled and said hello also... now tell me why did this man decide to stop walking and stand right next to me.

I immediately went back to reading my book... but I noticed from corner of my eyes that he was seriously checking me out... now if the bro was my type then I wouldn't have mind but he was not... first of all I am not into the short bros nor am I into a man thats too grown up ( as in old).... don't get me wrong I am not that tall.. I am of average height which is 5' 6" the man had to be at least 5' 4" ....and a lot older than I am at least in appearance.... come on now....

So I pretended not to notice him... my train came and I step on and sat down.. with all the empty seats around this fool decided to sit right next to me. What the freak is up with that.......

I continued to read my book and I could see from the corner of my eyes that he was seriously itching to say something to me........

He mustered up the courage to ask me what I was reading and if it was interesting..... Trying to be polite as I normally am... I turned around and told him yes and showed him the cover.....

I proceeded to continue reading my book... and watching him from the corner of my eye hoping he didn't have anything else to say....

He kept eye balling me and I guess trying to figure out what to say next..... thank goodness I wasn't going that far on the train so my stop came quickly....

I closed my book, lifted my hand bag and proceeded to get up from my seat....as my back was faced to him I heard him say... Have a nice evening.... I just kept it moving.......


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